
1.
An OG massaging wand that’s been satisfying people for more than 30 years. It’s perfect if you want something tried-and-true that’ll take your kitty (and other parts of your body) to spa day.

Promising review: “Wow, I’ve heard a lot about this wand and have had many recommendations for it, and I see why! The wide head hits just right and you can really just go to town with it. The different speed settings are fun to experiment with, and there’s really no wrong way to go with this baby. I’m hopping in the recommendation bandwagon for this toy, it’s worth it.” —Undefined
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $79.
2.
A “rabbit” vibrator with vibrating ears for teasing both sweet spots. You can use it solo or with a partner, bringing more intensity to your bedroom sexcapades.

Promising review: “I absolutely LOVE this toy! Never knew what an amazing orgasm felt like until I used this. And although using it during sex is a little difficult to maneuver (not what it’s really meant for), I use the rabbit ear part during sex sometimes, and both my partner and I think it intensifies things GREATLY! Highly recommend!!!” —Bella
Get it from Ella Paradis for $41.60 (originally $104).
3.
A vibrating bullet ring, so you can take your love-making just a step above. Also, it stretches to fit most sizes and has five vibrating levels, in case you want to go ~harder~.

Love Honey
Promising review: Cock rings are usually a tricky thing to get right. This one was fantastic, well-fitted (nice and tight) around the balls and penis, and the added vibration bullet adds a fantastic sensation for both the user and their partner. Great starter ring and improves sex for both partners or solo play. —MC 6
Get it from Lovehoney for $17.49 (originally $24.99).
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A remote-controlled vibrator with vibrating motors at the shaft and tip for double the pleasure. It’s great for solo play, but even better for couples.
Promising review: “This is a GREAT vibrator. I had only sort of been able to achieve a prostate orgasm before buying this Hugo last month, but now… OMG. I am almost addicted to the darn thing! My girl loves controlling the remote and driving me crazy, and I love being able to make it go all-out at the end for an incredible — and I do mean INCREDIBLE — super orgasm. Literally changed our sex life overnight. One of our best buys ever.” —Bigarbie
Get it from Lelo for $186.15 (originally $219; available in three colors).
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A satisfying ring with vibrations that are not too strong, not too weak, it’s *just* right. Also, you don’t have to buy batteries for this baby. Just plug it in when it needs juice.
Promising review: “I surprised my boyfriend with this after we talked about incorporating sex toys. He said it was easy to put on and a good fit: Snug but not too tight. I liked that the vibrations were strong but not too intense. We didn’t get the angle perfect on first try, but let’s just say we didn’t mind the practice to figure it out. We thought Halo would make it feel better for only me. I swear he loves it just as much or more.” —Bellesa Reviewer
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $69.
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A silicone toy that’s best for beginners. It has gentle curves and ridges, so you don’t get too overwhelmed with the sensations. Plus, the bright red color could really get you into the ~holiday spirit~.
7.
A silicone Unbound Romp plug for those who want to explore a new pleasure spot. Of course, *always* use lubricant for a smooth experience.
8.
An Aurora Vida that (my oh my!) functions as both a clitoris and G-spot stimulator, so you get twice the fun in one toy.
Promising review: This was my first vibrator, and I’m so glad I got this one. I wanted clitoral stimulation but also have the choice for penetration, so if I did want it later, I didn’t have to buy a whole new vibrator. This has definitely helped me explore my body and be comfortable with myself! I haven’t tried all the modes, but there’s a lot, so it’s versatile enough to see what you like but still super easy to use! I love it! —Jess
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $99.
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A clitoral-stimulating vibrator so you can test out how thick your apartment walls really are. Its wildly popular design acts as a ~sensual vacuum~ by delivering waves and pulsations around your clit — someone get us to the church on time, because we are MARRYING this crowd pleaser.
Promising review: “Ok. Real talk. I NEVER write reviews. But it was reviews I read that led me to purchase this mystical device and now I feel like I have to share to encourage others. I have always had an incredibly difficult time reaching completion. Sometimes it can take my hours with high tech vibes and even then no guarantees. Fast forward to this device. I honestly didn’t know what to think when I inboxed it. Probably the first time I have ever read instructions on a sex toy. But I swear to all that is holy I finished two, TWO, back to back O’s in under 20 minutes. Which for me is a GD miracle. Then went on to a third while participating in the deed through some creative positioning. I think I might still be a little lightheaded. I cried and then decided to write this review.” —Samantha Cole
Get it from Amazon for $34.95.
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A hands-free Bellesa and BuzzFeed (yes, you read that right) Air Vibe with dual clitoris and G-spot stimulator that’ll probably take you to your fastest Os.
Promising review: This is my first dual stimulation toy, and I’m obsessed with it. It brought me to my quickest and most intense orgasm the first time I used it!! I love that it’s hands-free and how powerful the vibrations and suctions are! I highly recommend to anyone looking for a toy like this! —Jenna
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $59.
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A super realistic dildo that’s so detailed and textured, it’s so…wow…um, *ahem*. It comes with a suction base for hands-free play. Stick it on the floor, table, or wall — go all out!
Lovehoney
Promising review: “This toy is truly fit for a king (LOL) and queens. Sizing is to the larger side as far as toys go, which I really enjoyed. Being in the larger side of the scale, I found its length was perfectly scaled and the head shaped to perfection. The suction cup was adequate but not overly powerful. Its shaft is gently tapered and lightly textured. At full insertion it won’t disappoint and will bring anyone to a knee-quivering, toe-curling orgasm.” —Jay
Get it from Lovehoney for $54.99 (available in three colors).
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A simple, easy-to-use bullet vibrator, because sometimes you don’t want all the complicated 11-something pressure levels and other add-ons that confuse you. Use it. Finish. Done.
Dame
Promising reviews: “The Zee vibe is exactly what I was hoping for and more. It’s super quiet, yet definitely powerful enough for a completion. Zee holds its own with its tiny size and pinpoint sensations. Understandably, it needs to be charged after every other use or so, but it’s ready to go very quickly. Right out of the box, I was enamored with the deep blue color, smooth yet grippable texture, and intuitive ergonomics. With all this at a great price, Zee is a competitive luxury.” —Rachael E.
Get it from Dame for $30.
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A rechargeable lipstick-shaped vibrator that you don’t have to hide deep within your dresser. It’s so discreet and convincing, you can leave it out on your vanity table, and no one will suspect a thing.
Promising review: “We needed something that was compact and easy to use, and the Mia is just that. It’s small enough to allow for use in some tight positions and powerful enough to get me to where I need to be. The USB charging makes this a perfect travel buddy.” —Jem8194
Get it from Lelo for $84.90 (available in three colors).
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A 7-inch adjustable strap-on with a pocket for your bullet vibrator, because who *doesn’t* want an explosive climax?
Lovehoney
Promising review: “Assembling this to my body was super easy. It felt a little strange around my groin area, but with it being a new toy for us, I put it down to that. To attach the dildo itself to the harness is very easy, which is great to clean it. The dildo stays in place on the harness the whole time, which is great for the sexual pleasure for the person who is receiving it. It is a very soft silicon and glides straight in with the appropriate lube. We will look into buying other attachments for this harness as we enjoyed this one so much!” — Dh2020
Get it from Lovehoney for $27.99 (originally $39.99).
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An air pulse toy for those who like pleasure in slow increasing waves. Take yourself there through the 11 intensity levels, ending your sesh with a bang.
Amazon
Promising review: “This is the first time I have ever bothered writing a review on Amazon. I felt compelled to do so after receiving and using this product. OMG. This thing is *uuuhhhhhmazing*. If I could buy these in bulk and distribute them to every person in the world, I would. Buy it. Buy it right this second. Buy one for you. Buy one for a friend. This thing will never let you down.” —JamieLynn
Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
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A Jack Rabbit toy with — now listen closely to this — a THRUSTING TIP. Oh my lord, who knew pleasure could be so damn easy? You literally don’t have to do anything to get that good good other than turning it on.
Bellesa Boutique
Promising review: “I found that I was never fully satisfied after ‘me-time.’ I bought this toy because the combination of thrusting and clit stimulation intrigued me and oh. my. god!! This toy got the job done in less than ten minutes!!! I love that there are so many settings so you can find what makes your body HAPPY.” —Amazed
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $149.
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A waterproof Satisfyer rabbit that’ll make your hot showers *very* steamy. With 12 vibration settings, you can choose the intensity level that does it for you.
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A waterproof prostate massager with eight vibration settings, so you can find the perfect vibe just. for. you!
Lelo
Promising review: “Bought this little guy a couple months ago, and I am still getting used to it, but oh man it’s pretty great. The orgasm you get using this is closer to how it feels when you have sex with a whole other person! In that once you are finished a warm feeling of calm washes over you, and you need to take a few minutes to catch your breath. Kind of how you feel after a deep meditation session.” — BillyClub
Get it from Lelo for $139 (available in black).
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A threesome ~Rock N Grind~ toy that’ll update your toy collection, especially if you’re bored with the standard models. Buckle up, because you’re in for a wild ride.
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A pretty glass dildo that’s not only mesmerizing but also very low maintenance. Use *any* lube, wash with soap and water, hell, you can even put it in the dishwasher.
Promising review: “For one this is very beautiful. The material its made with and the curve of it is absolutely stunning. This is my first toy, and so far I’m in love with it! It’s a great way to get to know my body! At first glance it looks small, but during use it’s very satisfying. I tried it with the almost naked lube.” —Melboo
Get it from Urban Outfitters for $34.
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